So what is this dating thing that I hear people talking about. If you go on several dates, is that considered dating? Is it just to get to know the other person? or are these just the stepping stones to fuck them. When does one know when dating has just become friends with benefits? When does one know when the two have become monogamous.
So if there are doubts in any of those questions, then the two people are not in love because I think one should know. (Sucks when only one person feels it)
In Katy Perry’s “not like the movie” song, it makes a great point which I believe that if you don’t feel like what you are going through is like a movie, when doubt is already in the game at the start, thats not how it should be. (This is just the perspective that I am taking on my situation, I know that making general statements like that is not always true)
I’m beginning to feel that past relationships are kinda like video games. If your last one is a PS3, it is hard to go back to a PS1; the better your last relationship is, the higher the standard that you have for your next one which is a shame when there are only so many people you can interact with.
I remember hearing Dan Savage talk about how people talk about the “one” and how he further explains that no one is ever the “one” but that people can be close to one and we ourselves just ROUND THEM THE FUCK UP to one and lie to ourselves.
I would say my last would be a solid 9 and maybe I have rounded it to 9.5. In my mind kind of had a check list (this is not going to be the complete list):
1) open minded view on lgbt (aka not hating on specific groups on this community and respect the culture)
2) doesn’t have an Asian fetish (liking someone just because they are Asian)
3) is genuinely nice and not bitchy
….wow I am sure there was more, but I am having a brainfart right now